Every day, millions of couples are dating. Among the couples are younger men dating older women. These days, this is common scenario that we see. Age really doesn’t matter anymore. The important thing is that the two people dating are enjoying their time with each other. So you’re in a date, but this time it’s an older woman and you don’t know what to do. Don’t worry; we have come up with some tips to help you while dating older women.
Dating older women is mostly the same as dating any other women. They are still women although their age is just different. Most of the things that younger women like are also the things that older women would love. Here is a list of tips on dating women that you could do.
- Make her feel important but don’t be too clingy. Women are not the only one who tends to be clingy. Men can do that too. Older women have more responsibilities. Their life is much busier because they have much in their hands. They could even have children that they need to attend to. She has things that she needs to do even without you. Giver her enough space and time to do them and you would see that she would go back to you after everything that has to be done is done.
- Be confident. Both of you already know that you are dating older women. Although you have an age gap, you need to act confident about yourself. You need to show her that although you are young, you are still mature. Being confident will eventually come out when you equip yourself with knowledge about the things around you. You should not let her feel that she is older and treat her any other girl that you date.
- Have a plan for your future. Older women see that men have matured when they have a plan for their own future. You do not have to make this plan around her. You have to make a plan for yourself, to have a goal. This will let her know that you can take care of yourself and that you are not just using her for her money. Living your life for your future also makes you look more stable and independent.
- Don’t play with her. She is not a mind reader but she can smell your lies. She has already been through a lot of experience and it has taught her a lot. You may be acting similarly with other guys she used to date. If you do not have any good intentions, it is best that you just stay away. She knows when she is being played with and will not tolerate it. You just be honest and sincere in your actions. This will make her more comfortable to be around you.
- Enjoy the sexual experience she offers. Their many sexual experiences have already taught them a lot of things that you might still not know. With this, they realized the things they love and the things they don’t love about sex. They will surely be open to you about it. They will talk to you about it so that you would both enjoy your time with each other. Just be ready to learn and enjoy the moment. Don’t be surprised because you have already been warned.
- Be yourself. Try not to act as older men. The older women preferred to date you for the very reason that she likes you the way you are. She also likes to have fun and to different things while she can. Although she may be older, don’t think that you can’t teach her anything. There are still things that she is not really familiar with because of the generation gap. When this time comes, you need to let yourself shine. Teach her patiently and you would surely have a better relationship.
- Act maturely. There is no room for petty fights. She has already experienced that before and letting her experience that again would just ruin the moment. Understand each other and act more maturely. It does not mean that you have to change yourself completely. You just have to make yourself more mature so that you could look past the small fights and find the reason to still be with each other.